March 22, 2012

Not sure if I even remember how to do this...



I've been away for far too long, and I apologize. :/. Life has been crazy busy (which is good), but I've neglected to keep my audience informed!! However, good news...IM BACK!! :). 
The last time we left off, I had just returned from an awesome retreat of being together with all of the LV's and checking up on the service year. Since then I've attended 3 more weekend retreats, done 11 school retreats, had a visit from my dad and step-mom, spent a loooooong weekend back in Romeoville, attended 3 Broadway shows, ran an awesome 5K, crawled the streets of NYC for St. Patrick's Day looking for pubs, and tried to catch a bit of sleep in there when I am not at work!! Needless to say, I have been having too much fun, and can't believe how much time has flown by. 
Living in New York, and my feelings towards it, have not really changed drastically over the past few months; still loving it, continuing to learn my way around, and overall taking in as much as possible before the year is up! The students at school have been absolutely amazing! Their continued excitement about all things Campus Ministry/Lasallian Youth is the reason I do what I do. Sidenote, I AM OFFICIALLY COMING BACK FOR A SECOND YEAR AT BISHOP LOUGHLIN!! I am so excited to have renewed my contract with the volunteer program, as well as the school, and look forward to the many opportunities that will be presented for next year! Being one who plans way too far into the future, I already have some great ideas up my sleeve! ;). But really, the students are awesome, the faculty staff are awesome, and I am loving all the growth and knowledge they provide me with. I can definitely feel and see a change in the person that I am!! 
As I mentioned above, I have attended 3 weekends retreats over the past 2 months; District of Eastern North America (DENA) Young Lasallians Retreat, Discernment Retreat, and a second Kairos retreat with the students. Each retreat was a special experience, never overlapping on a similar theme, but I would have to say my favorite of the 3 was the Discernment Retreat. There was just a great feeling about taking time out of my busy schedule to truly reflect and think about not just my future as a volunteer, but also my future as an individual and my relationship with God. During one of the breakout sessions, we were able to discuss with different moderators where we were at as individuals, but also where we are at in discerning our life goals. As many of you may know, I am one that lives for the future, always excited to see the next step and what it has to offer versus living in the moment, without anticipation, and seeing where life takes me. When speaking with a specific moderator, she provided me with an awesome prayer, written by J Baps (John Baptist de La Salle as I like to call him with the students) himself. 
Stir up your trust in the infinite goodness of God.
Give honor to your Creator by leaving the care of your person in the hands of God.
Don’t be troubled about the present or disquieted about the future,
 but be concerned only about the moment you must now live.
Do not let anticipation of tomorrow be a burden on the day that is passing.
What you lack in the evening, the new morning will bring you,
 if you know how to hope in God.
 -St. John Baptist de La Salle
This prayer provided a lot of comfort and knowledge to continue my work, and who I am, without truly having to worry about what God has planned for me. 

The weather is very beautiful in New York, and can't believe I didn't even really have a winter. :(. Next year however, Mother Nature will be sure to treat me...i just know it. 

I promise with the next post, it will not be 823929 weeks before it happens. 

Continued thanks for prayers and support. :).

Live Jesus In Our Hearts. Forever! 

**I figure I could post a few pictures that have been from events that I talked about here in the blog...

My boss' daughter Evey Sue! :). I just thought (and know) the picture is adorable!!
Broadway Show #1 that I saw so far this year (2012)...


Broadway Show #2 that I saw so far this year (2012)...
Broadway Show #3 that I have seen so far this year (2012)...
A view from my rock where I meditated and reflected for over an hour
on one of my 3 weekend retreats!! :)
Yay for airport pick-ups on my looooooong weekend visit to Lewis University!! 
Sophia(er) and I after completing the St. Patrick's Day 5K in Providence, RI (Good ol' LU alums too!!)  
Loughlin students who attended our Habitat for Humanity: A Brush With Kindness during their February Break!
Loughlin students who attended Kairos 7 at beginning of March.
Some fancy dressed actors we met along the crawl through NYC

January 17, 2012

Who knew life could get so busy?!


 For this blog, I decided to do a picture update for some of the events that have happened for me over the past month. One of my resolutions/commitments for the rest of the service year was to keep my family and friends more in tune with what I am doing; blogging is at the top of that list!! For this year of 2012, please look forward to seeing more about what is going, etc. 2012 is off to a great start, can you tell?! ;)

Bedford Park bannister before Christmas
I helped play an elf for "Christmas at Loughlin" Week,
 as well as participated in the student's annual Christmas Show
Merry Christmas from (most of) the DENA volunteers!! :D
Cousin Bennett and I on Christmas Eve 
MATCHING FOOTIE PAJAMAS!! Merry Christmas 2011!! :)
What better way to ring in the new year, than doodle at 5 in the morning at your New Year's party...
Theme: Superheros, Result: Power Puff Girls!! :D


Mulch Fest 2012 with some Loughlin Students 

Bedford Park Dirty Santa/White Elephant Gift Exchange!! :D 
Brant Lake, NY for Lasallian Volunteers Midyear Retreat!!
 Live Jesus In Our Hearts. Forever!

December 11, 2011

5 Week Update. :/

Alright...I know its been forever and a day since I have updated this blog, but after reading all that has been happening, you will understand where I have had no time to update. With the days getting longer and longer (because of sunlight, or lack there of...), I have been getting more and more tired when the work day is complete. It was told to me when I arrived that you are not a true New Yorker, until you are able to fall asleep on the subway, and wake-up either before or just as the train is pulling into your stop. Thankfully, it has taken me many train rides and countless times sleeping through my stops to finally be able to call myself a true New Yorker, and wake myself up the stop before I have to get off the train!! In my book, that is a huge accomplishment!! :D.

Now, onto all the exciting things that have held me back from updating (please bear with the short novel you are about to enjoy):

When we last left off, I had just completed running a half-marathon! It is still hard for me to believe some days that I actually still completed it, and sometimes wonder if I just dreamt it, but then see my medal and race number, and realize I didn't. With the fun had that weekend, I wasn't sure how it could get any better, but the following weekend proved it would! I made a surprise return trip to good ol' Romeoville, IL to visit some friends and share in some wonderful experiences shared by others. ;). I was so excited to be able to pull off such a huge surprise, and I am pretty sure I can vouch for my friends, that it was just as exciting. I never imagined how much I would miss people until I moved away, and was able to return! Though the weekend was extremely short, I loved and soaked in every minute of it!

It was then back to New York to begin another week at work, but one that proved to be nothing less than exciting. I received a text on Monday morning from my boss alerting me she would be staying home with her daughter who was sick. I immediately became nervous and anxious for work that day because I would be in the office, by myself, hoping nothing would go wrong. One day turned to two, and then three. I can honestly say, I learned that I am an extreme people person from this experience; I began to turn on music in the office, look at pictures of friends on facebook, just to remember what it was like to be around people! It's sad to admit, but honestly, there's no surprise in knowing I need to be around people and their high energy! :)

Though it was different being in the office by myself, I was also able to learn a lot about my responsibility and ability to create tasks for myself when someone is not present. I also got the experience of running one of our freshman retreats all by myself (with the teacher and 2 guidance counselors in the room...). Needless to say, that retreat will forever live in my mind, as a good (and bad) experience!

The week was short, having Friday off for Veteran's Day, yet I went into work late morning for our Lasallian Youth day retreat! This retreat was planned by our Exec. Board Senior students on Lasallian Youth, for the rest of the LY students. This year's theme focused around the idea of cyber-bullying. As all participants learned, cyber-bulling is an up-and-coming force that is destroying the lives of so many young middle and high school students. I believe the students did a fantastic job planning and executing the retreat, and for once, it was nice to be a participant vs. leader.

As the days were growing closer and closer to Thanksgiving, Bishop Loughlin's Canned Food Drive was getting closer and closer to ending. As you well know by now, the house system at Loughlin is central to all activities/competitions we partake in throughout the school day. I believe the canned food drive is one of the two largest competitions (aside from the Penny Drive). This year, we set a goal, hoping to beat last year's total of 4,000-ish non-perishable food items. Now, if you are asking yourself why it's called a CANNED food drive, yet other food was donated, that's a good question. After last year's drive, the food pantry we donated to got an infestation of pantry moths, and had to close down. All of the food found in boxes/bags had to be thrown away, and thus causing the pantry to no longer accept ANY food donations. The thought of not providing meals to needy families during the holidays was heart-breaking, and the pantry began to accept donations again from us, under one condition; ONLY CANNED ITEMS WOULD BE ACCEPTED! This put a lot of pressure onto the school for breaking last year's record, but the students rose to the challenge.


The total number of cans brought in this year was 3,126. Though knowing this is less than last year's, we took into consideration the fact that almost 25% of last year's donated items were Ramon and packages of boxed noodle meals. For my first year running a canned food drive, and such, I was very please with the students full participation! :)

As a part of the food display above, we had a giant revealing to the school at our Thanksgiving Assembly. Now, the week before Melissa (my boss) was out sick :(, and the week of the assembly she was at an educational conference (no worries, she truly is the best, and hasn't left me in the office since ;) ), I had to run the assembly by myself. With a large student body like we have, it can sometimes be a nightmare getting everyone calmed down and attentive. This day, that was the least of my concerns. I had received an email the night before telling me that our speaker was not going to be able to show up, and I immediately panicked. Though, had I read the rest of the email I would've learned 2 others were coming to speak on her behalf. These 2 young men showed up at school the next day at 10:27, when the assembly was set to start at 10:30. Again, as you can imagine, I was a mess, pacing the hallways, waiting (and praying)  for them to arrive! The assembly went off well, and another lesson was learned that day; ALWAYS call your speaker a week in advance to remind them about assemblies! 

That weekend was a very special weekend for the Loughlin community. As I mentioned, Melissa was at an educational conference, and I got the opportunity to go down to Washington, D.C. where it was being held, and be a part of a surprise for one of our fellow Loughlin faculty. Mr. Mike Foley, one of the Guidance Counselors and Moderator for Lasallian Youth, was receiving an award as the Distinguished Lasallian Educator of the Year (as a representative of the District of Eastern North America). I drove a group of 4 students down that morning as part of the surprise, and man was it a great time seeing his reaction to the whole thing! :). Though it was a short first time in D.C., I hope to make it back soon, since I also have family that lives down there, and would be able to provide tours! 

At this point in the short novel (if you have been keeping track), we are at the week of Thanksgiving. The week began with Loughlin Spirit Week, allowing for themed dressed days! The theme this year was "Dressing" to Impress. The word dressing is in " " because our themes revolved around salad dressings! On Monday we had Thousand Island Day, dressing like we were ready to go out to the warm climates, and take a tropical vacation! Tuesday brought us Ranch Day, and I was able to bust out my favorite plaid shirt I used to wear out to Saddle Up! all the time! :). We had a Sadie Hawkins Dance after school, and brought in a dance instructor who taught the students all they needed to know in square/line dancing, and then some! Wednesday was Spirit Day, and I finally received my first piece of Loughlin apparel!! I can say that I have worn my shirt proudly ever since! 

Just some of the seniors from the Class of 2012 on Spirit Day;
we display our Loughlin "L" quite proudly!! :D
This year, Thanksgiving was much different being away from family, yet it was so enjoyable because I was able to do something that I have always dreamt about; Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade!! Br. Bill's family has an annual tradition of attending, and I figured there was no better group to go with, then them, and so I followed. We were located at 58th and Columbus Circle (the corner where the groups/floats/balloons make their first turn, before heading down Broadway). It was so surreal to see the balloons up close and personal, versus sitting in the comfort of my home on the couch! 

Happy Thanksgiving
My favorite balloon of the whole parade!
SANTA!!

Being in NYC for the holdiays, the next holiday event to look like a tourist was the lighting of the Rockefeller Christmas Tree!! I met up with Stephanie right after work, and we headed downtown to try and get as close to the tree as possible! Arriving at 4:15, and knowing that we would have to wait until 7 for the night to start, we thought we had pretty good spots standing about a block away! Once the program started, a very nice NYPD allowed us to get even closer, thus putting us about 500 feet away from the tree! It was an awesome experience, plus all of the performers, and seeing that tree never gets old to me, it is so beautiful!


Cee-Lo Green
Neil Diamond (this one's for you mom!)
The Biebs
Michael Buble
Radio City Music Hall Rockettes!! 
THE TREE!! :D :D :D 
 That weekend, I participated in one of the most exciting weekends I've had since moving out to New York; Kairos 6 with the Loughlin community of students. Kairos is a spiritual retreat that helps students further find their relationship with God, themselves, and classmates (sounds like another retreat that I have participated on...). The weekend was filled with laughter, tears, moments of happiness, and moments of sadness, but all focusing around the same theme of "Discovering who you were, who you are, and who you want to be!" Though a giant lack of sleep, I can honestly say the students went into the retreat with an open-mind, and came out with so much more!

This past week, I had Thursday off because of the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, and man was it needed. I was able to sleep-in until almost noon, and then was able to get the day "started" by going down to the Upper East Side, and walking down 5th Avenue, looking at all of the beautiful Christmas windows on display outside the big name stores (Tiffany & Co., Armani Exchange, Chanel, Burberry, etc.). Stephanie and I walked all the way down, until we made it to 34th Street, and we went inside the ever so famous Macy's department store, and experienced our own "Miracle on 34th Street". While inside, we browsed for a bit, then went on an excursion to find Santa. After reaching Santaland, we waited patiently with all the children to get our picture taken, and then headed back downstairs to drop off our letters to Santa in his special "Macy's Believe" mailbox!! Reliving the younger years was definitely an added excitement to the beginning of this holiday season!

This past weekend brought lots more holiday activities, including picking out our Christmas tree, and hanging up other decorations! I look forward to being home in just a mere 10 days, and spending time with my family and friends!

The stockings all hung at Bedford Park Community with care...

I thank you for being patient with such a long absence from posting, but with the holiday break ahead, I hope to be able to look back, and reflect on the exciting moments that 2011 has brought me, and what more is left to come! 

Live Jesus In Our Hearts. FOREVER!

November 1, 2011

It seems every time I blog...

...I am baking cookies. Ha.

Sorry that it has been FOREVER since I have blogged. I seriously thought that I was going to get better at this; some things never change.

A LOT has happened since I last blogged, and of course, I am going to do my best to fill you in! I have been very consistent with my daily wake-up, prayer, breakfast, school, home, bed, repeat, but I have also had some exciting events thrown in between.

A few weeks ago, I got to help proctor my first PSAT's with the 9, 10, and 11th grade students. Though it is only meant for 11th grade, Loughlin uses it s as a way to prepare the students for upcoming standardized tests, etc. I always remember what the teachers had to say (scripted directions) was extremely boring, but when you are the teacher, it is even more boring! Lol. I was able to get through the day without too much of a problem. A funnier moment from the day was as school was beginning, the students were assigned to their homerooms for the test, and a girl came up to me asking where her homeroom was. Now, I know it seems rude of me to make jokes, but it's been at least a month and half since starting school, and I know that she was not new to the school. I guess when you throw "All School Test Day" in front of the title of the school day, it confuses kids.

That weekend, I had my first FREE weekend since starting the Lasallian Volunteers, and moving to New York. You can say that I definitely took advantage, and celebrated!! I went out with the roomies to see the new Footloose, and to my surprise, it wasn't half bad. I truly enjoyed the first movie, and wasn't going into the movie with any great expectations, but was pleasantly surprised. Afterwards, we walked around Times Square for a little bit, until we found ourselves in the middle of Occupy Times Square. You can guarantee that we found our way out of there quicker than whatever analogy you want to place here. Not wanting to get involved, we took ourselves to what has become my newest, favorite hang-out location, Off the Wagon, a bar found in Greenwich Village. We arrived before 9 pm, with tons of drink specials going on, and definitely took full advantage! :D. After a very enjoyable evening, we began to head home on the train, which was a whole new experience. I have to say, it is a whole different audience riding the train home at 1:30 in the morning, that is for sure.

Bedford Park first years, celebrating a weekend at Off the Wagon. 
That next week was a short week at school, but yet very busy. Though the student were only in class Monday through Thursday, the teachers worked on Friday for our Public Relations Concert. This concert invited in local middle school students to tour Loughlin, and see all the different activities we have for our students. Some of the activities included our small bands, Junior Senior band, African Dance, House Dance, Contemporary Modern Dance, and our Step Team. In Campus Ministry, we invited students to come down, learn about the different service projects and such we do for the school and surrounding community, and then play an ice breaker with them. Very exhausting, yet very fun to see all the prospective Loughlin-ites. It was then on Sunday that we had our official Open House, and it was back to work again for the afternoon. Again, it was very successful, and I do believe that we are going to have an exceptional incoming freshman class next year at Bishop Loughlin. 

Over the weekend, we also celebrated many different Halloween activities in the house; watching movies (Paranormal Activity 2, Sweeny Todd, scary episode of Boardwalk Empire, etc.), carving pumpkins, and baking cookies with Halloween sprinkles!! 

Bedford Park Pumpkins 2011; Autobots and Pumpkin Pi
After such a busy week before, I looked forward to the coming week, which proved to be a "short" week for me, only having to be in the office until Thursday. The normal events happened such as retreat and family day, but it was also an exciting week of activities for our students. The first of which was a personal fundraiser that I was doing. As you know, I was participating in the Lv Races Monster Dash 2011, and we were looking for donations and sponsorships. As a community, we came up with an idea to sell cookies to our students, and thus, the Bedford Park Bakery was born! 

Bedford Park Bakery, and just some of it's products
In total, I believe we baked almost 22 dozen cookies, and were able to raise almost $150 dollars to sponsor us in running this past weekend's event (that story is coming soon!!)

After such a successful beginning-of-the-week fundraising, it was onto Halloween Dress-up Day for the Seniors and Faculty/Staff!! This is a very exciting day at Loughlin, and this year, we made it even more exciting for the students, as the faculty/staff kept their costume a secret!! Getting all of the faculty together to dress-up was not going to happen, but we had a solid group of 15 participate. The theme this year; "Sweatin' to the Oldies with Richard Simmons"!! We had a lot of fun, and it was definitely a day that ALL of the students will remember from this year!! 



WE LOVE RICHARD SIMMONS!! :D 

Now...onto the big exciting story you've been waiting for these past few months; LV Races Monster Dash 2011!! This past weekend, I flew out to Minneapolis with some of my community and participated in this big weekend!! There was lots of talk, preparation, and fundraising done, and it all was made worth it!! I am proud to announce that I completed the half-marathon in an official time of 2:42:14!! I was so proud of myself, and still cannot believe I did it!! 

Some of the community with our costumes; Bro. Ed as "Bugsy", Kenny, myself, and Stephanie as Bugsy's carrots!! 
The awesome sign Grams and Gramps made me as I ran by every time I saw them!! :). Definitely a motivation booster and something to help me continue running 
Amy, myself, Kimberly, and Charlie at mile 3.5-ish.
My running group around mile 5.5 (+ Charlie!!)
Mile 9.25 (this is around the time I needed some motivation to keep going,
 and I definitely received it!!)
CROSSING THE FINISH LINE!! (the time shown is total time elapsed over the course of the race
from the first gun shot)
BROMANCE REUNITED!! 
I also want to send a shout out of thanks to all those who helped sponsor me on this race. I raised over $2,500!! Though the race is complete, there is still time to also donate!

It continues to be busy out here in NYC, but it is getting close to Thanksgiving and Christmas, and I am  so freakin' excited, it isn't even funny. For sure there will be posts about that to come!! 

Until next time...

Live Jesus In Our Hearts. Forever!



October 10, 2011

Fall has fallen...

...and even in NYC, it is beautiful!!

Being in the city, and passing through  busy areas, I never imagined the fall colors would be as beautiful as they are! When I get off the train every day in Brooklyn, and begin my walk to school, I pass a park on my right, along with trees down my particular sidewalk, and thank God for the beauty around!! It definitely makes me feel at home with all the trees surrounding. :).

The past few weeks have definitely been exciting, to say the least. Since last writing, I have planned a special mass for the bishop of Brooklyn to attend, a prayer service for our seniors, led 2 seniors retreats, volunteered with the students at our first service project, and attended a teacher conference!!

To begin, bishop's mass: at the beginning of the school year, my boss and I found out the bishop was coming to school. Needless to say, it was a big deal, and the first month of school was dedicated to creating the special mass. All in all, it went very well, and the students' behavior far exceeded my expectation. We also had a special assembly for the juniors/seniors, as well then another special group of 30 young men who met with the bishop to talk about vocations. Completing that mass and assembly lifted a huge weight off the shoulders of our office, and allowed us to continue planning for the year.

Next on the list was a prayer service: every year, it is a tradition for the seniors to receive a special "Senior Pin." With this pin comes a short assembly and prayer service, and you guessed it, Campus Ministry helped to plan it. Being in the same week as the Bishop's Mass, it came down to crunch time for planning this prayer service, but we heard nothing but positive feedback from all the faculty/staff/administration, plus students how nice the service was; definitely a spirit booster!! As a faculty member, I also received a pin from the seniors, saying "thank you for being here!" (or something along those lines).

After the prayer service comes Senior Retreats: as part of Campus Ministry, like I've mentioned before, we are responsible for planning the numerous day retreats for all our grade levels. We are beginning the year with our Senior class (Class of 2012). The theme revolves around looking towards the future, and all that comes with it. It is definitely at emotional, but the students have been receptive to the activities, without causing too many problems. My favorite part of the retreat is at the end of the day when we watch a movie; not because I enjoy not having to talk with students, but because the movie is awesome. We watch Pay It Forward. Though I have now seen the movie probably about 7-8 times, I still get choked up and shed a tear at the end. The theme, the characters, the whole movie is awesome, and definitely a recommendation towards anyone who has not seen it.

Second to last, service projects are very important to Loughlinites. For our first service project, we volunteered across the street at Queen of All Saints Health Fair. Our students helped set-up the health fair booths, and then got to spend the day walking around, scrounging up all the free stuff they could find. A quick math break; 12 high school students + a bunch of free stuff = lots of empty tables once the high school kids pass through. Lol. At the end of the day, the students were awesome, the church staff was appreciative, and I went home to relax and nap! :)

Lastly, I got to attend my first teacher conference; Brother Luke Salm, FSC Religious Education Workshop. The 2 day workshop brought together campus ministers and theology teachers from mainly the East Coast district, but also some others from across the country. A time to begin networking, as well as learn some valuable information for the coming service year, as well as years down the road for when I become a real "big boy" with my job! :).

It has definitely been busy with school and such, but I seriously would not ask for anything else. I love it!!

I wish I had an update for you on the girl who I helped with her homework, and the result of her quiz in class; she has not come back to find me yet and report, so I now begin the outreach towards her, to let her know that I do really care about how she is doing.

Also, an update on my fundraising...I REACHED MY GOAL AND AM STILL GOING!! There are just under three weeks left until I run in my half-marathon, so definitely time to still donate towards the awesome cause!! Any bit counts towards the larger goal of $52,000!! Thanks to all who helped support so far!! Check it out here!!

Live Jesus In Our Hearts. Forever.